on being seen
#onbeingSeen unpacks the nuanced topics of hiding, vulnerability, and allowing ourselves to be seen and known. from softness to self-intimacy, from grief to gratitude, we make space to explore the complexities of healing and loving as black girl who just wants to be seen.
musings on being seen
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A new chapter
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Why We hide
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The pain of being perfect
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unravelling
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The Love We Crave
In Your Own Home: The Safety We Seek
We are the keepers of the safety we are searching for.
The love We Crave
Opening our hearts to the love we desire is scary, but some things are worth the risk.
The Pain of Being Perfect
We may not always think consciously about how much “messing up” weighs on our sense of self worth, even though so many of us learned to define ourselves by what we do and how well we do it.
This need to be perfect, to be in control, and to avoid failure at all costs is so painful.
The visibility wound & the fear of being seen
To the Black girl who learned that being seen wasn’t safe, I see you.
Welcome to Black Girl Seen: A New Chapter
To the Black girl who is ready to come out of hiding, I see you.